Treeting Myself

Saturday was all about taking time for me. I planned it that way. Weeks ago, I booked an appointment at a local day spa to use a gift certificate my husband gave me for Christmas and I RSVPed for the second Momz Share event.

What’s Momz Share,  you ask?

Its an initiative started by Jennifer Gerlock and Lara DiPaolo to create networking events for bloggers – essentially an opportunity to meet fellow bloggers offline. It was a fabulous opportunity for this newbie blogger to meet other women with a similar passion, like the event’s hostess, Jessica.

I was also delighted to meet Theresa Luongo Pinelli, the chief sweetness officer (don’t you just love that title?) of Treet.  Theresa is passionate about using fresh ingredients from local farms to bake miniature cupcakes and other sweet treats. She also makes gluten-free and vegan (i.e. no milk, no eggs) goodies to perfection – a skill this food allergy mom/wannabe baker greatly admires. But if you’re not into baking and looking for a sweet alternative for your special diet, check Treet out.

The Momz Share event also included food made by SouperGirl and Done Right Catering. And did I mention I won a gift certificate to The Melting Pot of DC? It was a part of a raffle to raise money for the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life. I’m looking forward to a good meal out in support of a good cause.

In addition to networking and raising money to fight cancer, the event focused on passions. Life Coach Lauree Ostrofsky asked all attendees, “What’s Your Passion?” Great question but not so easy to answer. For me, its writing – and writing about my other passions.

What’s yours?

No More Pencils. No More Books.

No More Students.

I’ve been teaching English Composition part-time at a community college for four years. Today was my last class. Ever.

During my recent a-ha moment, I realized that I was just spinning my wheels semester after semester. If I wasn’t going to teach full-time – with a family and a full-time job that I love, I don’t have the time or desire to participate in the necessary professional development needed to enhance my curriculum vitae – then what was the point? Why was I spending my time teaching when I could be writing?

Today I got two answers:

1. A friend’s blog reminded me that family should come first and sometimes we need to let go of certain commitments to give priority to what’s important.

2. A student complimented by teaching style at the end of class.

Ok, so those two answers contradict but the first reminded me of one of the reasons I was hanging up my teaching cap (when I was having doubts) and the second validated that the time I had given to teaching wasn’t a waste and allowed me to leave on a positive note.

I enjoy teaching or, rather, I enjoy helping students, who care to, improve their writing. I’ve worked with a lot of talented, budding writers over the last four years and I’ve learned a lot from them but now its time to focus on my own writing.

Maybe I’ll go back to teaching one day; I wouldn’t mind teaching online. But, for now, I’m doing a happy dance because this semester is over!

Ready, Set, Run

I ran my first 5K last month!

Well, sort of.

I followed the Couch to 5K program for the first 30 minutes and then continued to alternate walking and running until I reached the finish line. But I did run and I completed the race in just under 45 minutes (44 and change)! 45 minutes was my goal and it felt really good to beat that even if it was only by seconds.

You see, I’m not a runner. I’m not much of an athlete either. I didn’t play any team sports in high school; I spent my after-school hours in the dance studio. And then came college and a bout with mono that took me off the dance floor. I was never the same after that. Fast forward to last winter. I signed up for a 5K in March to celebrate the life of a friend who had passed away the year before. My husband offered to participate with me but only if I ran. He didn’t want to walk it. So I accepted his challenge, bought a pair of running shoes and hit the pavement in January. Three weeks into my training the blizzards hit (yes, blizzard with an s. Remember all that snow?) and my new running shoes stayed in the closet. Until April.

I walked the 5K in March (and wore different shoes) but got back to running with the 5K in April and it felt great. Now its time to start training again so I can run the next 5K in its entirety. The Couch to 5K program lasts nine weeks so I should be ready mid-summer.
Bring it on!

Going Dairy-Free

At the close of Food Allergy Awareness Week, I’d like to share my experience eliminating dairy from my diet.

I went cold turkey from milk on New Years Day 2009 to determine if my son was allergic to it. I did a little research beforehand (www.kellymom.com is an excellent resource for breastfeeding moms facing any bf challenge) and knew that it would take two to three weeks for the milk proteins to work their way out of my body.

Those two weeks were extremely difficult. I felt like there was nothing I could eat because, as I began reading food labels, I discovered that milk hides in a lot of foods.

I distinctly remember making dinner one night and, just as I was adding in the last ingredient, realizing that the gravy I was using contained milk. I cried. I screamed. I thought about throwing the dish I had just made against the wall. What was I going to eat now?!!! This new diet was extremely frustrating.

But, alas, it was necessary. My son’s symptoms improved and he was diagnosed with allergies to milk, eggs and peanuts. (Once I took milk out of my diet, the egg allergy became evident as well.)

Over time, I got used to the new diet and discovered the alternatives. For us, soy easily replaced milk, however, that is one of the common allergens and many food allergy sufferers don’t have that option. I basically followed a vegan diet and began to try new recipes. It opened a new culinary world for me.

I continued on this diet until my son stopped breastfeeding ten months later. I could have stopped when he was diagnosed but I was committed to breastfeeding for the first year. Whether I was breastfeeding or not, he was still allergic to these foods. His allergies were not going to go away if I stopped breastfeeding.

After being dairy-free for ten months, I had a hard time introducing it back into my diet. It felt like I was doing something wrong. But I did go on a dairy binge (and ate way too many Christmas cookies). I gained back the weight I had lost and then some. Now, I’m trying to phase dairy back out. My son doesn’t yet understand that certain foods make him sick and he’s at the stage of his development where what’s on mommy’s plate is more appealing than what’s on his. So, I eat what he can eat and we continue our food allergy adventure.

My Dear Brian Letter to NBC Nightly News

I have always preferred Nightly News to the other evening news programs. However, tonight, I was very disappointed by the segment about food allergies.

I understand the need to present both sides of an issue but segments like “Food Allergies Often Misdiagnosed” undermine the severity of the very real cases of children with food allergies. Viewers see this kind of coverage and are quick to dismiss the condition – a condition that can be isolating, alienating and, in some cases, life-threatening. For food allergy sufferers, it’s not enough to avoid the foods that cause an allergic reaction. They must also watch out for hidden allergens (milk is in a lot more than just dairy products, for example) and avoid cross-contamination. Imagine what its like to be threatened by something so essential to sustaining life.

Many parents, myself included, are fighting to protect their children from this every meal threat. During Food Allergy Awareness Week, shouldn’t your program focus on what’s being done to raise awareness rather than air a segment that dismisses the condition as often misdiagnosed?

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